Have you ever noticed, the more we attempt to control a person or a situation, the more it controls you? You are only fooling yourself if you think this is working for you. Anytime you set yourself up to think, “If I can just get him or her to do what I want, all will be fine”, you are living the life of a co-dependent trap. In the illusion of imprisoning another you are only creating your own life behind bars. Exhausting, isn’t it? By letting go and freeing others, we inadvertently free ourselves!
What is it you want from YOUR life? Adjust your focus and know that you are worth putting the time and effort into your future, wants and needs. When we focus on controlling others, so much time is wasted when we could be creating our own inner pot of gold! If a situation is meant to be, or a person is meant to be in your life, it will naturally occur as you value your own purpose here on earth. The scenario you’re holding on to will eventually draw closer, or drift away, as you open yourself up to YOUR possibilities! If the drift happens, guess what? Something, someone, more in tune with you and your vibration will enter your life. Just as it’s meant to be.
Learn to let go of the illusion of control and experience the delicacies flowing into your life!